求“一篇关于网恋价值观的文章”（原创）
——评论网恋的价值观
网络是人们获取信息渠道的一种发展，而网恋只是网络发展的一个分支，至于网恋，这和生活中的恋爱没什么区别，要说有区别的话，也就是见面与不见面，精神与肉体的区别。生活中也有没有肉体接触的恋爱，你能说那不叫恋爱吗？精神恋爱也是恋爱，它不单单是只有欺骗，有的更多是善意的，这就要看你怎样去认识它，理解它
其实就现在的情况而言，人与人之间的相识相恋，网络已经占有了很大一部分的空间，或许有的人不敢去相信网络中也会有爱情，或许有的人已经为此而感到苦恼
但这一切都是无谓的，因为什么事都应该有属于自己的思维，不要轻信别人的，你要清楚，有一些是不适合你的
你认为对，就应该来努力实现
你认为不对就应该坚决放弃，不要有任何留恋，因为留恋了，只能使你再次陷下去
可能有的人正在为自己的感情，承受着长辈们的一些压力，正在坚持与放弃中，艰难抉择
但那只是长辈的一种忧虑心理，因为在他们那个年代，根本就不敢想象科技会发展地如此之快，人们竟会在网上相识相恋，更有甚者，将会步入婚姻的殿堂
如果你们真想在一起，就要为此而做出努力，因为世上没有不劳而获的道理，去尝试着让自己的父母还有长辈们接受，甚至承认你们的感情，因为社会是发展的，人类是进步的
但是想要实现，必须靠你们两人的共同努力，单方面是不行的，如果只有一人还在苦苦支撑，那么你还不如尽早放弃，该干嘛，干嘛
也许有的人会认为我这句话，过于轻率，但这是事实，真正的爱必须是建立在两个人共同感情之上的，一个人的努力，那只是一相情愿，说得通俗点，就是单相思
无谓
爱情中，没有对错，有的只是宽容与自私
如果你真的想去爱某一个人，那么就要学会为他（她）付出，不要只看见眼前的事物，因为目光短浅的人是得不到自己的真爱的，自私，只能使到手的爱情化为乌有
听过“网络情人”这首歌吗？“最期待的是见面，最担心的是我不够好看， 想吻你，可不可以。 朋友都说no、我不相信。”能不能表达你们的心声？这或许就是绝大多数人的心态
消极
或许没有经历过网恋的人不曾有过这样的感触，沉迷于网恋，沉迷于那种虚幻的假想当中，其实是无谓的
网恋跟现实中的爱情也许只是一步之遥，也许相隔千山万水，这就要看你怎样去把握，机会是在有信心人手中的，只要你不言弃，那么总有一天你会享受到其中的幸福
所以，请不要对网恋存有一种抵触的心理，因为就目前的社会状况而言，已经有许许多多这样的事例了（例如：网络征婚，网络交友），太多太多了，你总不能说那都是骗人的，那都是不存在的事实吧
有的人之所以会认为它是虚幻的，那是因为彼此没有面对面的接触和交谈，它只能是通过文字交流的形式，因而给人增加了一种神秘感，若即若离，却又难舍难离，也正是因为这种神秘感，促使了更多的人想要去了解它，接触它
不信，你们可以去询问其他的人，尤其是80跟90后的人们，其中会有一半，或许更多的人，是通过网络这种渠道来相识相知的，因为这就是科技的发展，这就是人类的进步
我们总不能说，人类的进步是由现实走向了虚幻吧？总不能说人类的进步是使自己一步一步走向了假想吧？所以我们不能只停留在那原始社会的阶段，而是要融入在这日新月异的人类进步之中
所以，请不必把网络看得神秘莫测，每一台电脑前面都有一颗跳动着的心，我们不是在跟电脑交流，也不是在跟电脑恋爱，而是跟电脑前的人在诉说自己的内心
相信你能理解 答案补充 这是我在最近写的一篇文章里，对网恋的评价，希望对你有所帮助。
高分急求完整英文辩论材料，要求正反方都有，题目不限
最佳答案之前也参加了英语辩论赛 里面有广告扮演积极还是消极的角色的辩题
我把当时我们写的一、二、三辩稿的资料都发给你 希望对你有用
（请勿复制回答，谢谢尊重知识产权）
一辩
Honorable judges, ladies and gentlemen, good evening, everyone!
First let me anylize the topic. Essentially,advertising is a way of transinformation.Then negative means lacking in definite, constructive or helpful qualities or charateristics,namely making bad effects on subjects. So how can we judge an object is negative or positive. Every coin has two sides, we cannot deny its advantages but we firmly believe advertising plays a negative role because it mainly make bad effects on our society.
Then let me count it in full detail.
First, advertising dusts the eyes of consumers. Advertising should be a way of getting imformations, but nowadays, the contents of them are too untruthful and overstating to believe. What's more,the costs of advertising are actually from consumers' pockets just like someone cheat us with a mask but we have to pay for it.
Second, advertising worsen the competition in industry. Most companies are minor enterprise. They waste a mass of manpower and financial resources to blindly seek the benefits from advertising but pay less attention on business management and quality of products. Qinchi wine factory is a typical example.
Third, to society, based on the above, advertising causes excessive expense and the crisis of good faith.
According to the comparison above, we definie advertising is a necessary evil, it has advantages but it plays a negative role in our society. Thus we should take measures to face it's negative influences. In our opinion, on one hand, the government should strengthen the legal system and institutions to limit advertising and pay more attentions to the consuming education to help generations build a proper consuming logos. On the other hand, companies should be established in good faith. In a short, we shoule take effective measures to face the negative role that advertising plays in our society.
自由辩论
战场一：对消费者
1.Thank you. This toothpaste is advertised very well. One of my partners have used this toothpaste for one year,but why his teeth can't not look like the advertising shows?
2.60% cost of Naobaijin is spended in advertising. What do you think about it?
3.Last week, the actor Hou Yaohua was charged for -----for untruthful advertising. He said sorry but no overstate, no advertising. What do you think about it?
4.Please answer me how can we choose a good apple from those each one has been put in fancy packing box?
战场二：对企业
1. We can hardly find an advertising of Huawei Company, but it is one of the strongest companies in China. What do you think about it?
2.In 1997, Qinchi wine factory paid more than 2 hundred million yuan to get the right to advertise during golden time in CCTV. But this factory went bankrucy later. Why?
战场三：
1.Nowadays, we can see some signboards like Clean Resturant, Relieved drugstore. Isn't it the result that lacking good faith from advertising?
2."Love her, let her drink shangdao coffee, take her to eat Haagen-dazs", a romantic appointment bring about a month of quickserved noodles and steamed bread. Advertising lead to such a consuming habitat. How can we deny its negative side?
反驳
1.帮助产品吸引消费者 Yes, so these untruthful and overstating imformation push consumers to buy something they don't need.
2.对消费者信息资讯 But these informations are one-sided, untruthful and overstating.
3.对产品进行品牌定位 I wonder how can we choose a good apple from those each one has been put in fancy packing box.
4.艺术享受 Let us think about how much artistic quality it has, naobaijin,gaizhonggai,or the limitless elligal advertising in chongyou.
5.引导一种潮流和社In fact, as we can see, it lead an overmuch consuming and sumptuous atmosphere.
6.公益广告 According to the data we got, there are no more than 3% of advertising are commeonweal in every TV station. Thus how can they represent all advertisings.
7.广告法 I wonder if my fellow debaters realize the reality, if the law of advertising can limit advertising enough, why so many tragedies happen again and again
三辩稿
AHonorable judges, distinguished guests, ladies and gentlemen, good evening, everyone!
According to my fellow debaters’ opinion, they agree that ….
But…
First, we have to emphasize that we have never said a word that advertising has nothing positive. We define it is negative because its main influences to society are negative. My fellow debaters just refered to commonweal advertising.But according to the data we got, there are at the most 3% of advertising are commeonweal in every TV station. Quite apart from this, in advertising theory, commonweal advertising is strictly just a publicly announced playlet but not advertising.
OK, let us turn back to the topic. We should realize that advertising has two nature characteristics, one, only telling the advantages but avoiding the disavantages, two, spreading an extremely wide range. Because of these charateristics, with the quickly development of technology, nowadays advertising becomes a mainly tool to get extra profits and lead to abnormal develoments. As far, advertising is not only a way to get informations but extremely act as a cheat for profits. As we can see, it has more and more means of spreading, but spreading more and more untruthful imformations, it has more and more range to spread but its artistic quality is more and more lower. Just like naobaijin which has being advertized on TV for ten years, don't tell me it's really attractive.
Today we are debating about what role advertising plays in our society but not what role it should or will play. Just look at the reality, potentially,30,000 babies have been harmed by melamine of powdered milk, according to the survey in Shanghai, there are 55% of people have been cheated by advertising,and what about limitless illegal advertising, it causes a serious problem of informational pollution. All above set us thinking about why so many tragedies happen again and again, the rudimentary reason is that advertising just transmit one-sided,overstating, untruthful and in poor taste informations.
Today we stand here, we aren't going to perish advertising, but reminding everyone that advertising is much more negative than positive. We should realize that since advertising is necessary in our life and society, we must envisage its negative side and take effective measures to restrict it.Thus in such a rapidly developing society we can protect our benefits and lead a more colorful life.
关于网恋的文章
他说，宝贝对不起，不是不爱你，真的不 他说，宝贝对不起，不是不爱你，真的不愿意，又让你伤心。
千环百折，还是爱与不爱，爱，或者，不够爱。
爱情，是不是来过这里。
幸福，留下痕迹。
偶尔的瞬间，彻骨想念。
偶尔的瞬间，想要微笑。
偶尔的瞬间，只剩记忆。
其实，珍惜都会来不及。
我说过，有一天，你回头，我已不在。
那时我们都很年轻么。于是不懂得要去珍惜。不知道要去争取。不明白，爱，是想要在一起。
记忆里，我们都动了心。
每一个那么认真的女子，都有着深邃的心事。
心中，总有那么一块，充满不甘愿，那么想要，想要。
完全得不到，不爱，距离，或者，所有构成不能在一起的理由，都让人神伤。而暧昧，却让人伤透了心。最怕那种，对方说喜欢，说爱，却坦诚的告诉你，我们不能在一起。于是，一边追逐，一边面对着他所有的离开。一边为着他的借口找理由，一边发现自己的伤口，血干枯竭。
伤口能够结痂，自然是好的。可惜就怕，一遍一遍的去撕开它。而血液，由鲜红，变暗红，成黑红，最后，终于无法流淌。
一个人的时候，会不断的回忆。不顾一切的像白痴一样微笑。当然，要坚强，坚强下面就是万劫不复的想要去爱的动摇。而一旦犹豫，便将自己推入黑色的沉沦深渊。
不是不懂得，放弃是洒脱。纵然，那时侯的天空总是无比的湛蓝，那时的黑夜总会无比的温暖，那时的清水喝起来，都是甜的。麻痹了理智的神经，忘记了有些人，注定是观看即止。欣赏他，就让他走。走得远远的。走出你的领地。
他说，我真的没有天分，安静的没这么快，我会学着放弃你，是因为我太爱你。
有很多的人，想要，却始终被现实束缚。其实，不是自认为的原则，是懦弱，是爱不够。仅此而已。就像有的人，只是一个网络游戏而已，却硬生生的强加了自己的情感。不愿舍弃。就连这一点点的不愿放弃，只是因为，那是一种付出的象征，是动了心的动容。历练动容，那是一种怎样的经历。是连回忆起来，满心都是疼痛。
觉得有时候游戏，就是一种残酷的记忆，不过这类记忆，往往都是自己加上去且莫须有的东西而已。
与其悲哀的存在，不如死去。如爱情，与其永无止境的等待，不如直接让它空白。
当一个你想要爱的人，不能理解你的重视，不懂得在你们的世界曾经存在的一点一滴一言一语一个呼吸一个亲吻一个符号一个动作都是你的宝贝。
那么，当他问你，我好想你，我什么时候才能再见到你。
这样回答，当你想我到非见我不可，你会见到我。
他会欣喜的。
只是他永远不明白，如果已经到非见不可的地步，是该飞奔向你，而不是只在原地等待而已。
他更不会明白，当有一天他可以飞奔向你，你已不是等待的那个女子。
我会记得你。
会好好记忆。
愿意，又让你伤心。
